3 Month Soul Contract Journey.
~~~   Next intake starts July 2020    ~~~

I opened up the first Chamber of this vision in 2015 and had eleven groups through. 
I had never taken anyone on a 3 month journey before.  It was far more profound than I anticipated.  
All the outcomes have been way beyond words.

I invite you to join me in my Temple if you indeed are ready to sit with me in the energy, ceremony and process.

Starting in July 2020...... if you feel the call, then it's time to contact me.

What does it look like?

Working together, one-on-one.  Once a week Zoom call session.  Daily practise and weekly SoulWork.  A deep commitment together.

Which will be consecrated to the divine.  Witnessed by source.  Joined by deities. Uniquely and individually flowing with the energies, soul contracts and your destiny.

If you think you would like to join me in my Temple then contact me Now.

We will have an online call session and see if it’s a fit for both of us.  

We will discuss where you are at and what I envisage could play out if you entered the Temple.  
The investment of your time, money and very serious soul commitment unfolds in the session.

Email me Now:  nicole@nikstarr.com if you are being called to work closely with me. Let's chat soon.

Read more in the reflections below of what it's like to experience a 3 month Soul Contract.

What is the Online Temple?


"A lost man and a lady with a dot on her head".
From where I was to where I am now, could be mumbled in one sentence that is not only cliché but also over used with less severity needed in this context. New Year New Me, a phrase that is used by hung over party goers on the first of January all over the world, hell I have even used it in the past. However this is different, it is not the 23rd of April, and I have just journey with a lady with a dot on her head. I am not coming down of drugs, like so may times in the past, I am not hungover counting the remains in my wallet to see if I have enough money to get out of this random house.. I am sitting in a half lotus position, with mala beads on, with the scent of lemon grass. I know what a sight, a 100kg mine worker with face tattoos in a position of complete vulnerability and yet with the confidence to open his heart and know It is strong enough for nothing to hurt it. With the guidance of my soul council, the wisdom of Odin, the gracefulness of Shiva and the love of sakment let me try to explain this journey. It began with a phone call, one unlike any other phone call I have had before, yet little did I know there would be 12 more phone calls like this one. From the first call I remember 2 things, 1 thing was the feeling I got after I hung the phone up was like that of walking into a festival, with the euphoria and excitement of what is to come, 2nd is that this lady told me this would “be one of the hardest things I will do” – I remember this because at the time I was thinking “right o lady, I have done some hard things, I have beat addiction, I have walked over 180klms in 4 days with 80kgs on my back in the army. I like a challenge this will be easy, all I am doing is sitting down for 30 minutes a day” I could not have been more wrong!! This was one of the hardest things I have done, yet nothing has been more rewarding and changing than the last 84 days. And it by far was not 30 minutes a day.. We started by unravelling, and opening the boxes that I have labelled “fuck this, deal with it later”. And from those boxes came more boxes, more issues and deeper issues. Scratching the surface just exposed a very hurt boy that needed some love, support and what he has never had before a “nik hug”. Through meditation and self assessment I was able to pinpoint times in my life that has carried pain to where I am now in my life, I was finally seeing the big picture, and I was 2-3 weeks in. With more time the confidence of being my true self came out, I was able to see things for what they where, and that’s when after our phone call explaining the necessity of holding on to your personal energy and not letting people use it or take it from you, something that I have done my whole life, until the moment motivated by the lady with the dot. I had just applied for a home loan, and planned to buy with my family our first home, something to call ours. I went to work sat in a meeting like many before, listing to why we aren’t meeting budget, whose fault it was, and what we can do in the future to change it, i rose from my seat at work and quit mid meeting, with 100% trust in the universe that I would be provide. And it did, in more ways than now living in our dream family home. I have had conversations and built relationships with my mother that I thought id never be able to have in my life, and this was through humbling my heart and opening the energy in my throat, I was finally able to feel the unconditional love that everyone longs for. Yet not everyone gets. Barriers have been knocked down and new relationships built. And also many relationships have been ended. Exploring skills of seeing the future, seeing others energy and connecting with past spirits was something I thought only happened in the movies to “gifted” people, not people like myself. However I have had conversations with my father about random things, I have connected with my partners loved one whilst laying on the lounge watching football. But the thing that will stand out the most was the feeling of complete control of everything In this world, the true feeling that I am the creator of everything!!! I was able to have a glimpse at the time of 100% control of my body, the ability to move oxygen, shut down organs, and move blood to where I wanted it to go. That was the turning point of realization that “this shit is real”. And from there It has grown and grown. So after a brief report of what happened, what is planned for future Mitch….. A F#CKING SH!T LOAD. Working with the lady with the dot, has truly changed my life. Love you big time Nik, thank you for everything.

A brave young man from Brisbane, Aust.

3 months ago I joined an Online Temple with Nicole, I didn't know what to expect but great change was at least my goal & I got that plus a whole universe more! What I did find, was myself, my true self. What followed was an awakening of epic proportions, every facet of myself was split open, shaken up and lovingly put back together in a more authentic, organic & nurturing kind of way. Nicole was like a universal hug mixed with a karmic slap all rolled into one and I love that! I wanted daily ritual and I got it, I wanted truth and I got that too, I also got a universal download that was like an atom bomb going off in my mind, heart & body that freed me from myself and all I thought I needed to know and I came to place of such peace and gratitude my heart could burst. Did the hard stuff go away....no but my understanding of the hard stuff changed, it was no longer anything it just is, just life. Nothing and no thing matters it just IS. I am so grateful, I feel set free and ready to do the work I was meant to do with my whole heart & soul ❤️Thank you Nicole

Jasmin, Brisbane; Australia.


"I started working with Durgaji at a time of huge transition following the death of my mother and the ending of my 15 year relationship. I felt unsure and uncertain about moving forward and what life would look like for me.
Since starting my work with Durgaji in June 2015 I have become the empowered woman I always knew I had the potential of becoming, but I didn’t know how. Durgaji has shown me the truth of my nature and has helped me understand my purpose through the awe-inspiring beauty and the deep wisdom of my female body. 
Durgaji helped me unlock the incredible force of ancient knowledge that is inside me through simple yet mind-blowing powerful techniques. I have learned how to harness the raw creative and sexual energy that arises in my body and transmute it through the power of living with an open heart in full integrity in each and every moment.
I have overcome fears and I have blossomed in my body confidence and my confidence of who I am in the world. I feel like I have found my place and I don’t need to know or control everything as I have a deep faith and trust in the process of life and the Universe. I understand and accept that I am part of a bigger picture that is playing out around me and I get to choose how to show up in my energy everyday. Life has become a continuous stream of miracle and I get to show up and participate in these miracles from a space of open curiosity, compassion and the grounded certainty that all is as it needs to be.
I have learned so much about the primordial power I have access to through my womb and using techniques such as jade eggs and sublimation bring it to a place of being able to use it in everyday life to fuel creativity and change and to flow with the natural rhythm of manifestation. I have healed my sexuality through the bliss of my sensuality which an experience that I have on a daily basis. I see my body as a conduit for pure divine energies that facilitate the anchoring of higher vibrational energies in my life and on the planet.
What I love about working with Durgaji is that she has taught me how to work from the ground up so to speak. Working with the base chakra is fundamental to bringing order to physical everyday life which is just as holy and significant as working with the crown chakra and downloading information from my higher self. I have learned to exist in balance between earth and heaven and I can truly say that I live everyday in harmony with that. I have finally been able to find the balance between my physical and my spiritual life in a way that is natural and easy.
One of the biggest lessons I have received from Durgaji is how to be in my full spiritual and energetic integrity all of the time, not just when I am in meditation or chanting mantras. All of the time. Every single moment. Because it is all sacred. Every single moment of it and the only way to keep expanding and growing is through embodying the integrity and truth of the Living Goddess that I am all of the time, in constant awareness with a fully open heart. 
I have definitely found the path that I have sought throughout my life. It is a path to wholeness integrating the foundations of my body, my sensuality, my personal power, my heart-space, my personal expression, my inner knowing and my ability to receive directly from Divine Source. 
I am finally the woman I have always wanted to be: empowered, self-assured, confident, fearless, open, loving, curious, fun, powerful and a continual sacred work in progress.
Thank you Durgaji. Terimakasih Tuhan."                                                                            Fotini. ~ Sydney Aust.

Reflections about my journey with Nicole Phoenix Starr

Wow, Where to begin!

How about with the very first week as that is where you helped me to feel more safe, and checked in with my security around having my needs met after my recent transition to Ubud. I didn’t have an income at the time we started and that contributed to my feelings of lack. So having a goddess Lakshmi just gave me such a focus for me to manifest abundance, build a ritual around, remind myself daily to cultivate and honour abundance.

The energy of my altar was not brought to a new vibration.

I took on the challenge of hosting with airbnb.

Every session just brought clarity around information/emotions that I suppressed. Asked myself such hard questions and shared my voice, my findings so openly with you, so that I had witnesses and commitment to move on and shift these blocks.

I mean I knew I had blocks, been working on them for years, yet this process produced transparency at another level.

I possess trust, I know my passions better than I have ever explored, I realize why I feel so powerless and am ready to shift this pattern. Definitely feel more empowered in my recently birthed Warrior archetype. And now have my warrior mountain bike chariot that can get me to work in 15 minutes!

My heart has learned to receive and wants to try out pouring unconditional love.

I no longer pine for my past love, nor feel I need “another” to complete me. However if a magician or a farmer came round…

My voice still shakes with emotion around certain issues however I keep talking and know that I am an emotional being and that even when I speak with vulnerability, I will demonstrate strength.

I experience consciousness at a deeper level, experience being, and am aware how much I love this way of living.

My third eye and crown chakra are so much more open since a meditation practice has resumed again in my life.

I am so much more in tune with my archetypes since exploring how they enhance my consultancy role. I have purified and realized how ritual and routine feeds my spirit. I have new tools to feed my spirit.

I feel so grateful that I have given myself this year as a gift, and this practice working with you is the highlight of it all. How could I not, how could I have even questioned the possibility for even a moment is so beyond, behind me now.

Looking forward to blossoming with you in the future…                                                         Sandee..... Canada

From Sally: a Tantra student.

Hi Durgaji , 

This is more my online summary for sharing in the online temple I have written another one which I will share with you later. Really the words do not do justice to who you have been and this journey . So it is with a full heart and love that I offer this to you as a partial act of the journey of the time spent together as far .. is it still 222 years ago or maybe 333 now ?

My journey with Nicole began with a sense of insight and intuition to call this lady that many of my friends had spoken off. I had no idea what Nicole “did”, or what would be in store for a “soul session”. Though I trusted, and this was one of the best decisions I ever made. 

The unfolding of how I became one of Nik’s tantra students was ones of synchronistic circumstances, and the asking of innocent questions such as “ do you know a good tantra teacher?” I obviously had no idea that Nicole was a tantric master. 

I was blessed truly blessed, that out of such love and compassion, and maybe a soul contract that Nicole was with me to guide me through my process of awakening that had already began. 

I had been undergoing what I believe to be a kundalini awakening, and with out Nicoles guidance I would not have been able to be in the place I am today. 

Nicole took me in as a student and initiated me into her ancient linage. This began with a beautiful ceremony at a sacred bali site. Where we connected the heavens and the earths through our bodies, and were taking to meet our soul council in a powerful balinese cave. 

It was here I committed to the pathway of white tantra, of living the white tantric lifestyle . Without my knowing it had been happening anyway, and I believe was part of the divine plan. To awaken to freedom and liberation as fast as I could.

I began a 40 day Sadhana practice where I was taught how to build the energy/shakti in my body, and how to see the world as sacred and every moment as divine. I was given practices to reconnect myself with my femininity and sexuality , using jade eggs to once again become unified with the womb of my being . The womb of creation . 

I also did a group retreat with Nicole Shambhala, which really blew my mind, and more importantly blew my heart open. The energetic transmission that is received via being in Durga-ji presence was like being in “heaven on earth” , with such joy, but such a deep essence of fun and laughter. These are some of the fondest memories of being with three other women and Durga-ji connecting myself deeper to source, and being activated as a living goddess. 

Some extremely incredible experiences happened to me in this time, multi-dimensional , out of this world experiences . 

I had highs and I had the lows. Where many emotions that were trapped in my energetic body began to release. Lots of fear was leaving my cells, and depression . I hit a dark night of the soul. Where I became overwhelmed with life and emotions. Though I now see the beauty in all of this. 

It was that moment I knew my purpose it was to be love, feel love and experience love. This is what is the binding that keeps me in spirit , in purpose. How much can I open my heart to myself and then to others. This life is fundamentally about how deep can I love and work in this essence of love.

It is about following joy and spirit.

With the loving strength of the warrior/mother that she holds Nicole was always there by my side. 

The moments I remember most were the moments were something popped and I embraced everything as God. I welcomed my whole self in and I moved to a space of such deep love. I was walking in the divinity of I am . This feeling is so unexplainable. It has made me discover the mystery of the universe, we are here to walk in the golden nectar of the divine heart. 

This is one of the biggest gifts I could ask for . 

It was Nicole who taught me to love it all , and when I really do , or did complete acceptance I was elevated to such a state of heart centred living. I became the living embodiment of the divine. The walking goddess. 

Life became an undulation of waves of complete and pure love. 

I did not stay there and this is a journey . 

Though I feel now I know what is my path my dharma, I am so much more liberated from fear. I have deeper capabilities to love others, and to love and accept myself. 

I have purpose and I am closer to finding that true freedom that can exist in any place, time, situation . 

A lot I feel what Durgaji does is behind closed doors, that I am consciously unaware of the work that is happening. I still do not really understand, and really that is perfect. 

Though one thing that is for sure is that I love Durga-ji deeply and are eteranally grateful for all her love and guidance. I trust this woman with my life. With my soul, and I have never felt that for anyone before. This is my truth . 

Terimakasih tuhan , terimakasih tuhan , terimakasih tuhan.


Looking back at the beginning of this process, I know that I was ready to jump in, ready for whatever the process brought me, however if someone had told me that this process would bring a miracle, I wouldn’t have believed them - really.

The process of pouring out so much stuff to someone who was listening and thinking and ready to process and evaluate that stuff was more than I think would have been achieved through any other means.  Counselling, psychology and other forms of self reflection just don’t have the punch of the spiritual connection.

I know that the process has brought me so much more awareness: awareness with a purpose.  I now know that my immortal self is awake and that we are in accord.   The process of distancing from the event and being firmly in the witness seat is tricky, life sucks us back into patterns as the quick fix, the ‘go to’ operating mode.  Something to always be aware of.

I don’t want the process to finish – there’s a little girl crying ‘Don’t leave me’.  And I know that equally there is another saying ‘it doesn’t end, the process keeps going’.  And then in today’s post you said to pull on my Response-ability pants!  Love it – perfect timing!

Reading over some of the things I wrote especially about relationship, I’m now in a completely different headspace.  Not that I’m now completely happy with the situation, more that I am totally comfortable with letting the process unfold and see where we end up.

I keep thinking about my newborn me – I want to be her again – happy, knowing, spontaneous, full of so much love that it just flows from my pores.  “Remember who you are” keeps resonating in my head.  


I just don’t know what to write … I feel that each week, though somewhat wobbly at first, has been easy to work through.  Some of the things we discussed – like Sedona and extra-terrestrials for example, are things that I feel the need to follow up on and remain open to whatever the universe throws my way.  And I recongise that other things – like the family relationships will naturally evolve.  

I can’t say that any part of the process was more or less difficult or easy or confronting.  I expected there to be big shifts and there were, often in ways that I didn’t see coming.

When I look back, I think that I knew that those were going to be the shift points – the issues of control, which I felt pretty terrible about at the time, knowing that my happiness is my responsibility, and not taking on other people’s stuff.  I think that underneath it all I did know that my ego was ruling in the absence of strong soul connection.  I think that this is the one that I’m going to slip with.  Miss Ego is going to attempt to assert herself in the future and I think that I’m more prepared to recognise the sneakiness with which she’ll do it.  Damn it, she probably sneaks one in every now and then without my realising!

Going back to the knowing of being an immortal being.  This is central to the whole process because that understanding brings immediate self respect.  If I am an immortal soul, then I am part of the Divine that created this existence and every other existence.  All is created in perfection and for a purpose, therefore I, too, am perfect and purposeful!...In realising that, this new knowledge is somewhat of a struggle - I can’t really be perfect, just look at how you …, you are …, Those thoughts are there as  a life-time of conditioning is being changed.

How do I reaffirm and solidify that understanding so that it becomes irrefutable?  I will not allow negative thinking to phrase how I think about this, so how to word this positively?  I don’t want to think ‘I am not this’, I want to think ‘I am’.   Again I want to have that slammed into my thinking so that I never lose it. Instant life change, just add water and stir!   Lesley, Qld.